Just realized I forgot to post this a few weeks ago. This one is very important!
On 10/20/22, I presented at the 2nd conference of the ACHHS (Association of Christians in Health & Human Services) a breakout session explaining what actually happens in Reintegrative Therapy. RT is a treatment approach for trauma and addictions developed by Joseph Nicolosi, Jr (whose father is the founder of authentic Reparative Therapy), which has been found to be safe and effective in exploring sexual attraction fluidity. Although RT is not a religious approach, I show how it is compatible with a Christian worldview. I review the process of normative sexual development and the theory behind RT's techniques for gaining understanding and healing.
#reintegrativetherapy #SAFETherapy #samesexattraction #Nicolosi #therapeuticchoice #ACHHS2022 #SOCE #theologyofthebody
I'm taking a brief break from my typical videos to give some encouragement inspired by the new Looney Tunes movie, "Coyote vs. Acme," featuring my favorite characters, Wile E. Coyote and Roadrunner. If you've been facing challenges and disappointments, take some lessons from the genius that is Wile E. Coyote!
#CoyotevsAcme #TherapistReaction #LooneyTunes #WileECoyote #Roadrunner #Discouragement #Trials #Grief #Sadness
During the Alliance for Therapeutic Choice & Scientific Integrity online conference Aug. 28 & 29, 2026, a topic came up in our Q&A. I expounded on a phenomenon I've observed with certain male clients that contributes to some degree to their homosexuality. These clients come from strict religious upbringings that emphasize the purity of women. These anxious clients then internalize this as a block against their own heterosexual development. Let's discuss!
#SexualDevelopment #PurityCulture #SSA #HeterosexualDevelopment #HomosexualDevelopment #SexualAttraction #Sexuality
Following up on my videos on shame and guilt, let's address the question, "Can a thought be a sin?" This is a challenge for my clients with sexual struggles (such as unwanted same-sex attraction, fetishes, or addiction) and OCD or high trait anxiety. To help with this question, I consult wisdom from Scripture, the Early Church, and Fr. Stephen De Young and Fr. Andrew Damick from The Lord of Spirits podcast.
#Sin #Thoughts #Sexuality #OCD #ScrupulosityOCD #UnwantedSSA #ThoughtsvsIdeas #TheNous #TheMind #Mindfulness #LordofSpirits #FatherStephenDeYoung #FatherAndrewDamick #StJerome #EvilThoughts