Are real men always just stoic and emotionless? In our reaction against wokeness, we must be careful not to double-down on the old rigid stereotypes of manhood that are the actual culprits of the very sexuality and gender identity problems we're trying to correct! One of the major (and early) tasks in my work with clients--especially clients with sexuality struggles--is training them to feel and deal with their emotions. The problem is they've been conditioned to suppress and dissociate from their emotions, and this leads to acting them out through addictive behaviors.
#stoicism #emotionalintelligence #masculinity #emotions #resilience #emotionalstrength #antifragility #MattWalsh #BrooksGibbs #JasonWilson #sexuality #SSA #addiction #integratedman
I've been noticing over the past few years this trend in my town of people leaving out their Halloween decorations way past October . . . particularly lawn skeletons. What is the symbolic meaning of this phenomenon? Here are my thoughts.
#LawnSkeletons #Nihilism #CultureofDeath #SexualRevolution #Cynicism #TheologyoftheBody
Here's an addendum to my story of discrimination in graduate school for offering counseling to people with unwanted same-sex attraction. What is my advice to students pursuing a career in the helping professions (psychology, counseling, marriage and family therapy, social work, etc.)? Seek and speak the truth no matter what. Here's why (featuring words from Jordan Peterson and M. Scott Peck).
#AdvicetoGradStudents #PsychologyStudents #SOCE #SAFETherapy #LGBTactivism #ConservativeTherapist #ScottPeck #JordanPeterson
I recorded this video on 6/25/25, the 10th anniversary of receiving the email that changed my life. I was four weeks away from finishing my year-long internship and graduating with my master's in counseling psychology. Then, the head of the internship program at Chestnut Hill College emailed me to stop my internship immediately because of my work with men coping with unwanted same-sex attraction. I've told my story in different venues before, including an article for the Journal of Human Sexuality, but here is the full story . . . with no censorship or redactions.
#Discrimination #TherapeuticChoice #SAFETherapy #SOCE #ReparativeTherapy #SexualIdentityTherapy #ChangeAllowingTherapy #SexualOrientation #Homosexuality #SSA #UnwantedSSA #GayActivism