Are real men always just stoic and emotionless? In our reaction against wokeness, we must be careful not to double-down on the old rigid stereotypes of manhood that are the actual culprits of the very sexuality and gender identity problems we're trying to correct! One of the major (and early) tasks in my work with clients--especially clients with sexuality struggles--is training them to feel and deal with their emotions. The problem is they've been conditioned to suppress and dissociate from their emotions, and this leads to acting them out through addictive behaviors.
#stoicism #emotionalintelligence #masculinity #emotions #resilience #emotionalstrength #antifragility #MattWalsh #BrooksGibbs #JasonWilson #sexuality #SSA #addiction #integratedman
September 25-27, 2025, I had the immense honor of being at the American Association of Christian Counselors World Conference in Nashville, TN, and co-presenting with Dr. Christopher Rosik, one of my fellow board members on the Alliance for Therapeutic Choice and Scientific Integrity! We presented on Censoring Christian Sexuality: Insights from the Trenches. In my portion, I outlined the Christian vision of sexuality and then the major factors why there is opposition to Christian sexual morality and Christian sexuality counseling, and why there are so many divisions within the church on the topic. For the sake of time, I had to chop a lot. So, here's a more thorough teaching, diving into philosophy, culture dynamics, and Moral Foundations Theory.
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On Oct. 7th, the US Supreme Court heard oral arguments for the Kaley Chiles v. Salazar case involving a Christian counselor challenging Colorado's ban against "conversion therapy" for minors. This is a huge case for those of us who have been fighting for therapeutic choice since the first state ban in California passed in 2012. Let's listen to the audio recording and I'll give my commentary as a therapist who specializes in helping people with unwanted same-sex attraction.
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In wrapping up my discussion of the Chiles v. Salazar case at the Supreme Court, challenging Colorado's ban against "conversion therapy" (therapy to explore change in same-sex attraction and behaviors and gender identity/expression), I want to discuss two amicus briefs submitted in support of Colorado's ban. These briefs were written by ministers and counselors who claim to be "conservative, orthodox Christians" that advocate for the Side B "gay Christian" approach in the Church. They all claim to support the Church's historic understanding of sex and marriage, and yet they oppose therapy to help individuals better align with God's design and destiny for our sexuality.
#ChilesvSalazar #ConversionTherapy #SOCE #SOGICE #SexualityCounseling #SAFETherapy #LGBTactivism #LGBTtyranny #TherapeuticChoice #TherapyEquality #SideB #GregoryColes #BillHenson #JuliaSadusky