Are real men always just stoic and emotionless? In our reaction against wokeness, we must be careful not to double-down on the old rigid stereotypes of manhood that are the actual culprits of the very sexuality and gender identity problems we're trying to correct! One of the major (and early) tasks in my work with clients--especially clients with sexuality struggles--is training them to feel and deal with their emotions. The problem is they've been conditioned to suppress and dissociate from their emotions, and this leads to acting them out through addictive behaviors.
#stoicism #emotionalintelligence #masculinity #emotions #resilience #emotionalstrength #antifragility #MattWalsh #BrooksGibbs #JasonWilson #sexuality #SSA #addiction #integratedman
In honor of my parents' birthdays (Dec. 16 and 17), I interview them to discuss Open Heart Ministry, their service to the homeless and displaced in Myrtle Beach, SC. Luis and Marilyn Rodriguez are chaplains with years of experience doing lay ministry and pastoral work, such as mission trips, prison ministry, helping people in addiction recovery, teaching ESL and GED training, and caring for the elderly. I admire my parents for always being open to the Holy Spirit leading them to show people their worth.
#OpenHeartMinistry #Homelessness #Unhoused #Addiction #MentalIllness #BecauseYouMatter #HiddenTreasures
I'm honored to present this interview with Christine Sneeringer, director of Worthy Creations. We discuss her story of sexual redemption, coming to Christ as a lesbian in a church softball team. She served alongside the late Sy Rogers for 20 years, producing his videos, so we reminisce about Sy. And we cover Christine's new book, "Answers to Gender Madness," reviewing the chapter on do's and don'ts for parents when their child announces a trans identity. There are some great nuggets in this conversation. Be blessed!
#ChristineSneeringer #WorthyCreations #AnswerstoGenderMadness #GenderMadness #TruGender #Transgender #GenderIdentity #GenderIdeology #LGBT #Sexuality #exLGBT #Changed
This brief exercise is a homework routine you can use to transform outdated schemas (templates for how you feel, believe, and act). In this video, we'll review schema formation and the counteractive and memory reconsolidation approaches to changing schemas, then learn how to practice changing your implicit learning on your own. This schema disconfirmation exercise is an excellent follow-up to the coherence script I previously taught.
#Schema #Transformation #SelfHelp #PsychotherapyHomework #ChangingEmotions #MemoryReconsolidation #Attachment #ImplicitLearning