Here's a brief instructional video explaining how to do the Shame-Based Self-Statement (SBSS) Exercise that I learned from Joseph Nicolosi. It's a strategy you can use to double-loop with yourself, which is a way to show understanding and acceptance to yourself when you're facing the shame self-state.
#Shame #SelfState #SelfHelp #CounselingIntervention #SelfRegulation
I was recently a guest on Andrea Turner's Body Spirit Soul Connection podcast, discussing faith, sexuality, and identity. Check it out! Her platform is geared toward women, so ladies, you may be interested in her work.
Here's my commentary on the Netflix animated film "K-Pop Demon Hunters" as a therapist working with people with deep shame, particularly over sexuality struggles. And I weigh in on the debate over Jonathan Pageau's take that the movie's resolution promotes prideful "self-esteem" and LGBTQ "coming out" celebration.
#KPopDemonHunters #JonathanPageau #LordofSpiritsPodcast #Shame #Sexuality #Addiction #Worship
September 25-27, 2025, I had the immense honor of being at the American Association of Christian Counselors World Conference in Nashville, TN, and co-presenting with Dr. Christopher Rosik, one of my fellow board members on the Alliance for Therapeutic Choice and Scientific Integrity! We presented on Censoring Christian Sexuality: Insights from the Trenches. In my portion, I outlined the Christian vision of sexuality and then the major factors why there is opposition to Christian sexual morality and Christian sexuality counseling, and why there are so many divisions within the church on the topic. For the sake of time, I had to chop a lot. So, here's a more thorough teaching, diving into philosophy, culture dynamics, and Moral Foundations Theory.
#ChristianSexuality #HonorShame #Sexuality #MoralFoundations #GenderIdentity #AACC #AllianceforTherapeuticChoice #LGBTQActivism