Following up on my videos on shame and guilt, let's address the question, "Can a thought be a sin?" This is a challenge for my clients with sexual struggles (such as unwanted same-sex attraction, fetishes, or addiction) and OCD or high trait anxiety. To help with this question, I consult wisdom from Scripture, the Early Church, and Fr. Stephen De Young and Fr. Andrew Damick from The Lord of Spirits podcast.
#Sin #Thoughts #Sexuality #OCD #ScrupulosityOCD #UnwantedSSA #ThoughtsvsIdeas #TheNous #TheMind #Mindfulness #LordofSpirits #FatherStephenDeYoung #FatherAndrewDamick #StJerome #EvilThoughts
I'm taking a brief break from my typical videos to give some encouragement inspired by the new Looney Tunes movie, "Coyote vs. Acme," featuring my favorite characters, Wile E. Coyote and Roadrunner. If you've been facing challenges and disappointments, take some lessons from the genius that is Wile E. Coyote!
#CoyotevsAcme #TherapistReaction #LooneyTunes #WileECoyote #Roadrunner #Discouragement #Trials #Grief #Sadness
During the Alliance for Therapeutic Choice & Scientific Integrity online conference Aug. 28 & 29, 2026, a topic came up in our Q&A. I expounded on a phenomenon I've observed with certain male clients that contributes to some degree to their homosexuality. These clients come from strict religious upbringings that emphasize the purity of women. These anxious clients then internalize this as a block against their own heterosexual development. Let's discuss!
#SexualDevelopment #PurityCulture #SSA #HeterosexualDevelopment #HomosexualDevelopment #SexualAttraction #Sexuality
Last week, 7/29/26, my alma mater, the University of Valley Forge (Valley Forge Christian College in my time), announced they are closing after 87 years at the end of this summer semester. I came in as a student in 2004, graduated in December, 2007, then stayed involved as I served first with the Moving On men's recovery and support group from 2008-2016, then as the campus counselor from 2016-2025. Let's take a tour of the school as I share some reflections on my many years there.
#UVF #UVFClosing #VFCC #ValleyForge #ChristianCollege #ChristianEducation #CampusCounselor